The path to the Holy Spirit and ongoing relationship

Before faith in Jesus Christ

The Father draws a person to the Son (John 6:44, 65). That is God’s sovereignty at work. The drawing is real and necessary. It is not union with Christ, not new birth, and not a regenerated heart. An unbeliever does not yet have these things.

At the moment of faith

Drawn by the Father and hearing the gospel, a person freely believes in Christ and trusts the Son. In that same moment God saves them, unites them to Christ, causes them to be born of God, makes them a child of God, and brings them into His family by adoption as heirs with an inheritance. He makes them a new creation. They now belong to Christ. There is no regenerated unbeliever. There is no saved person still waiting to get into Christ, receive the Holy Spirit, or be born again.

Jn. 6:44; Rom. 10:17; Eph. 2:8–9; Jn. 1:12–13; 3:3–8; Rom. 8:15–17; Eph. 1:13–14; 2 Cor. 5:17; Rom. 8:9; 1 Jn. 5:1.

The Holy Spirit is given in that same moment

The one who believes receives the Spirit — not part of Him. That same Spirit causes new birth.

Jn. 3:5–8; Jn. 7:38–39; Gal. 3:2; Eph. 1:13–14; Rom. 8:9; 1 Cor. 12:13.

Two different questions

Does the believer have the Holy Spirit?

Yes. Once. Permanently.

Rom. 8:9; Gal. 3:2; Jn. 14:16–17; Eph. 4:30

Received / given / sealed / have / takes up residence in you = the Spirit is now yours. Conversion: the individual believer receives the Spirit one time, and that reception is permanent.

Gal. 3:2; Jn. 14:16; 2 Cor. 1:22; Eph. 1:13–14; Rom. 8:9; 1 Cor. 6:19; Eph. 4:30.

He (the Holy Spirit) is a Person, not a liquid. You do not get a percentage of Him at salvation and the rest later. The Helper lives in the believer. Rom. 8:9–11 is true of every Christian: if you belong to Christ, you have His Spirit, the same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead.

Only a believer belongs to Christ.

Rom. 8:9; 1 Cor. 3:23; 6:19–20; Gal. 3:29; 5:24; 1 Jn. 5:12. (* More on belonging to Christ below)

Is the believer under the Spirit’s control in this moment?

That is a different question — and it belongs after faith. The Spirit is already yours. Whether He is in control is the ongoing walk.

After faith

Sanctification begins. The believer already belongs to Christ and already has the Spirit; now comes the ongoing work of being made holy in daily life. That is not a second salvation and not a second receiving of the Spirit. It is an intentional relationship: abiding in Christ, walking by the Spirit, and not ignoring, grieving, or quenching the Helper who already lives in you (Jn. 15:4–5; Gal. 5:16, 25; Eph. 4:30; 1 Thes. 5:19). As you remain in the Son and yield to the Spirit, He produces fruit, trains you in obedience, and uses the Word to conform you to Christ (Gal. 5:22–23; Jn. 17:17; Rom. 8:29; Phil. 2:12–13). Neglect of that walk can cool into lukewarmness
(Rev. 3:15–16). Abiding keeps the relationship living: you already have the Spirit; sanctification is learning to live with Him in control.

Being filled

This is the same after-faith walk, said another way. Being filled is not how an unbeliever gets the Spirit, and it is not a second arrival of the Person already given at faith. When the full Person of the Holy Spirit already dwells in you, being filled means that same Spirit takes control, empowers, and overflows as you yield to Him. That can be repeated: not because He left and came back, and not because you only had some of Him, but because a believer can yield to Him or resist Him. Yielding to Him is giving Him control; that is being filled. Resisting Him is ignoring His presence, grieving Him, or quenching Him — living as if the Spirit who raised Christ from the dead does not dwell in you (Rom. 8:11). Both are choices. An intentional walk with Christ means not ignoring or neglecting the Spirit of Christ in us.

Eph. 5:18 makes the same point by contrast: “Do not get drunk on wine… but be filled with the Spirit.” Drunkenness is being controlled by wine. Filling is being controlled by the Spirit who already lives in you. Paul says this to people who were already sealed with the Spirit (Eph. 1:13). After faith, moments of filling are moments of yielding: the Spirit who already lives in you is in control.

Do not grieve, quench, or ignore Him

The Spirit in you can be treated as Lord or treated as if He were not there.

  • Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed (Eph. 4:30).
  • Do not quench the Spirit (1 Thes. 5:19).
  • Walk by the Spirit; keep in step with the Spirit (Gal. 5:16, 25).
  • Do not neglect the Helper already in you (Eph. 4:30; 1 Thes. 5:19).

You have full access to the Helper. Access is not the same as attention. A believer can have the Spirit and still walk in the flesh, live in fear, or stay silent. The problem is never that He is only partly present. The problem is ignoring the One who is fully present.

Conversion and the Christian life

Conversion: the Person of the Holy Spirit is given. Once. Permanent. Helper present. Rom. 8:9–11 is true of every believer.

Christian life: that same Person is not to be grieved, quenched, or ignored. “Filled with the Spirit” is how Scripture often speaks of that same Spirit’s ongoing power in the person who already has Him. Filling language means to be under His control. Do not neglect the Helper God has already given you.

You do not wait for a second arrival.

You do not get more of Him as a substance.

Moments of filling are moments of yielding after faith: the Spirit who already lives in you is in control.

In one line

God draws; you freely believe; you are saved, in Christ, born of God, adopted as an heir, and given the Spirit. Then sanctification begins: abide in Christ, yield to the Helper already in you, and be filled — under His control — or grieve, quench, and ignore Him. These are choices.

Expounding on “belonging to Christ”:

A person belongs to Christ only through faith in Him. Until that faith, the person is not His.

Scripture does not treat “belonging to Christ” as a vague spiritual atmosphere, a family heritage, or something that grows in stages before conversion. It is a real change of ownership and union that happens when a person believes. Jn. 1:12 says that to all who received Him, who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God. The right is given to those who believe, not to those still outside of faith. Gal. 3:26 says the same: you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus. Then v. 29: if you are Christ’s, then you are Abraham’s offspring, heirs according to promise. “If you are Christ’s” is not a second later stage. It is the result of being in Him through faith.

Before faith, a person does not belong to Christ. Eph. 2:12 describes that former state as separated from Christ, alienated, strangers to the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world. Verse 13 then marks the change: now in Christ Jesus you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ. Rom. 8:9 draws the line as sharply as possible: if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Him. The Spirit is given when a person believes (Eph. 1:13; Gal. 3:2). So, the person without faith does not have the Spirit, and the person without the Spirit does not belong to Christ. There is no class of people who already belong to Jesus but have not yet trusted Him.

Faith is the point of transfer. God draws, the gospel is heard, the person believes and trusts the Son, and in that moment, God saves, unites the person to Christ, and makes that person His. 2 Cor. 5:17 says if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. 1 Cor. 6:19–20 says the believer is not their own; they were bought with a price. That purchase is applied to the one who believes, not to the one still in unbelief. 1 Jn. 5:12 keeps the same division: whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life.

So, the order is not: belong first, believe later. It is: believe, and then you belong. Before faith, a person is not in Christ, not born of God, not adopted, not sealed, and not indwelt. After faith, they are Christ’s, and Rom. 8:9–11 is true of them: they have His Spirit, the same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead.

Jn. 1:12; Rom. 8:9; 1 Cor. 6:19–20; 2 Cor. 5:17; Gal. 3:26, 29; Eph. 1:13; 2:8–9, 12–13; 1 Jn. 5:12.


An ongoing study by Anthony D. Baker